A popular goddess in India |
Fire chose to dance in my front yard on
Sunday. The sky grew ominously dark in the late afternoon making it look like
night. Then came a thundershower. The heavens rumbled furiously. The lightning
turned into a dance of fires and the accompanying thunder deafened our ears.
Maggie and I were watching it from inside our house. When the orgy of the
heavens relented, I stepped out to take stock of the damage. A few of the tiles
outside the house lay shattered to smithereens. The fury of the lightning had
dug two deep holes in the wall. A flowerpot lay broken and the schefflera in it
was thrown aside. Soon I would discover that the damage was much more than all
that. Quite a few of my electric appliances were damaged irreparably.
I took leave from school on Monday in
order to bring a semblance of normalcy to my home. I learnt that a few houses
of my neighbourhood were similarly affected by the disaster.
Then came people’s reactions and
comments. Most people were concerned. Some were plainly curious. A few were
indifferent. One here and another there spoke
about god’s vengeance. This last group fascinated me the most.
God is unhappy with me and hence I
was punished. This is their verdict in short. What a pathetic god that is! I
mused aloud to Maggie. Maggie needed a bit of counselling because she seemed
inclined to agree with this inane view of silly people.
“People’s opinions on God’s attitudes
closely mirror their own beliefs,” I explained. I have done a post-graduate
course in psychology and hence can bring in significant information from
psychology. Maggie knows that. She listened.
When people say that god wants this or
that, what they actually mean is they want this or that.
Psychology has proved that with whatever evidence it is capable of. Nicholas
Epley from the University of Chicago concluded bluntly enough after his
research on this topic that for many religious people the question “What would
god do?” is essentially the same as “What would I do?” Through a combination of
surveys, psychological manipulation and brain-scanning, Epley found that when religious
people try to infer the will of God, they mainly draw on their own personal
beliefs.
People create God in their own image.
The prophet Hosea saw God as a jilted lover because he was a jilted lover
himself. All the biblical prophets re-created Yahweh in their own images. It’s
not only the prophets who do that, however. Most religious people, most people
who believe in god do that. For the envious believer, god is a jealous entity. For
the short-tempered person, God is short-tempered.
People use God to
justify their own attitudes and actions. When people interpret the disaster in
my life as God’s punishment for my irreligion, they only mean that they are
angry with me for being different from them.
Epley surveyed commuters at a Boston
train station. He studied the attitudes and beliefs of university
undergraduates and 1000 adults from a nationally representative database. In every
case, he found that people’s own attitudes and beliefs matched those they
suggested for God more precisely than those they suggested for their fellow
human beings. If you are interested to know more about Epley’s studies, here is
an article from the National Geographic: ‘Creating
God in one’s own image’.
Next time when anyone tells you about
god’s choices, remember that they are the speaker’s own choices.
Very true
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ReplyDeleteYes, I consoled one of my relations who was told that she had fractured her leg only because she could not tend to her ailing mother-in-law. Actually, we know how caring that lady was. It was only due to circumstances, she and her husband requested the other brother and his wife who hither to never cared for the mother to take charge. And the latter never bothered to take care of the mother earlier. It was all because they had to do everything when the mother in law was in death bed, they wrecked their vengeance saying that this woman fractured her leg only because she had not tended to the mother in law in her death bed. Also, I have seen people saying,'God will punish those who sin' only when they are highly unhappy with the person to whom they say it.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the concrete example. It shows clearly what I meant.
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