Retaining respect for
people is a tough job, especially in the age of Facebook and Whatsapp. Just a
few minutes back I came across two Facebook status updates from two of my
acquaintances and I found it impossible to suppress contempt. One was from a
Christian who maintained that there was no truth other than what his religion
taught. The other was from a Hindu who asserted that whatever the Judiciary
might decide, no woman from his family between the age of 10 and 50 would ever
visit the Sabarimala temple.
While arrogation of truth
to itself is one of Christianity’s congenital diseases, the Sabarimala issue
came up now because the Supreme Court recently defended all women’s right to
pray in that temple which has hitherto prohibited entry to menstruating women.
Both my acquaintances are ‘true’ believers in their respective religion. Their
faith is staunch. It is blind.
Such blindness is
becoming a serious problem in today’s India. There are millions of Indians who
have suddenly discovered that their faith is the only right faith, their truths
are the only possible truths, and so on.
I have no problem if any
person wants to worship a potato as his god and creates a religion called, say,
Potatoism. He can believe that the potato is the ultimate truth, the redeemer
of mankind, the paragon of delicacy, or whatever. He can worship it five times
a day. He can make it his only food. He can construct temples for the potato.
He may do whatever he wishes. But when he insists on my accepting all that
credo as mine too, there will certainly be a problem. Why can’t I be a
Tomatoist?
If tomato offers me
salvation, who can question its validity? Tomato gives me peace when there is
strife all around me. Tomato brings me hope where there is despair. Tomato is
my ultimate joy, my truth, the very essence of my life. Well, who can question
that as long as I don’t shove my tomato down your throat?
Religious faith should be
a personal affair. Religion is merely a way of finding meaning in life. There
are other ways such as philosophy, literature, music, work (karma yoga, for
instance), and so on. When it comes to life’s meaning, it is nothing if not
entirely personal. My thinking, attitudes and experiences all go into the
construction of my meaning of life. I gave up religion because I found it
absolutely inconsistent with my intellectual faculty. In fact, even my
instincts revolt against religion. How can anyone then expect me to find religion
to be of any use to me? I’d love to keep myself as far away from religion as
possible. My happiness is directly proportional to my distance from religion.
Yet I attend certain religious rituals for the sake of harmony in my workplace
or other places where I have to survive by sheer necessity. I don’t believe in
anything of what I do in such places. I am a hypocrite for the sake of peace
and harmony. That hypocrisy is part of my magnanimity.
But shoving the potato
down my throat day in and day out is too much of an assault on my magnanimity.
Disgust is not a healthy feeling. Save me from that, please.
Really nice thinking.
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ReplyDeleteVarkey
Yes, in the age of Facebook and Whatsapp some people are taking full advantage for their right to talking facility and expressing their thoughts now and then without analyzing what can be the impact on others.
ReplyDeleteReligion itself is a very "Narrow" word which diverts people from spirituality but yet its necessary for some people who actually do not posses any deeper philosophy towards life.
Good to go through your views.
Good one!
ReplyDeleteYou are very right. I fully agree with you.
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