When
a society changes in any important respect, dislocation of character takes
place, said psychologist Eric Fromm. For
example, when the feudalist system was replaced with the capitalist system many
people found themselves like fish out of water until they adapted themselves to
the new system.
We
live in a time of rapid changes. Each
day comes with a new technology, a new software for the laptop, or a new app to
be added to the smart phone. Our world
is not what it was twenty years ago.
Post offices have become redundant.
The video player metamorphosed into CD player which soon became
defunct. The CD/DVD drive replaced the floppy
drive, only to be overtaken by the pen drive even before we could absorb all these
changes. Door Darshan became a romantic nostalgia struggling to breathe amid
a plethora of channels of all types.
Banks went to ATMs before coming home on our laptop screens. Queues for paying all kinds of bills vanished
when online payment gateways opened new avenues. Even the music player went individualistic
with earphones attached to personal gadgets.
We
live in a world of individuals cut off from one another. The community life became virtual with
bloggers’ communities and social networks where we shared a lot of things like
our views and photographs, without actually sharing anything.
Such
radical changes don’t happen without affecting our character. Many of us have adapted ourselves to the new
world. Many of us are trying to
adapt. Quite many are not able to, may
not know how to, may not have the accessories required.
There
are many people who feel dislocated in the new world. The old character does not fit the new
society, to use Fromm’s words. A sense
of alienation and despair may be the result.
Crimes increase as a result.
What
is the remedy? We have to find new roots
and relationships, suggested Fromm. In
other words, adapt ourselves in a healthy way without losing our core values
and personality.
Many
people are unable to do that.
Consequently we have a society of dislocated people. People who are mere shadows of
themselves. The virtual life of shadows
won’t give us any satisfaction.
Loneliness, despair, frustrations… unhappiness is the result. And we search for happiness in all kinds of
places. In the malls, in eateries, in
acquisitions… But they fail to provide the real happiness which can only come
from a well adjusted personality.
Happiness does not lie outside there.
When
things in the mall, food and drinks in the eateries or increasing number of
apartments or villas or luxury cars fail to give us happiness, we start looking
for the panacea. Gurus and Babas offer
instant remedies. Cults mushroom. Fraudulent organisations and industries trap
us. They may come even in the garb of
beauty parlours or massage parlours.
Happy
are those who can see the superficiality of all these and touch the real depths
within. Theirs is the kingdom of heaven,
if I may paraphrase Jesus. Without the
waters of life that spring from the deepest cores of our very souls, our
existence remains like the fountains that go on recycling the same putrid
water.
Nice topic
ReplyDeleteSo true, fully agree. Good read.
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ReplyDeleteVery true and thought provoking!
ReplyDeleteIt is true. Fashion is a passing fad. We can't lose our core values for such fashionable things.
ReplyDeleteIts the reality, and its gripping everyone at a rapid rate...
ReplyDeleteGreat post ! Very insightful and relevant to our current materialistic lives and quick gratification.
ReplyDeleteAre people really dislocated? Or are they getting more and more narcissist, thanks to advent of social networking platforms? :)
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