“Most of us pick up morality in the course of growing up, in an unorganized manner through bits and pieces of our scattered and fragmented experiences.” I’m quoting Avichal again. The book was mentioned in my last post which was inspired by it. This book, whose subtitle is Moral Philosophy, Organisational Theory and Hostage Rescue, keeps provoking me every now and then though I haven’t developed a liking for it in general because of its tendency to scientify matters (see a page below, for example).
Morality is a personal affair. Where
do we get it from? That’s the direction in which my thoughts shot off as I read
Avichal’s paragraphs on the subject.
I was born and brought up in an
extremely orthodox Catholic family in the rural backyards of Kerala. The
children woke up when the rouser bell tolled at 5.30 am from the parish church
not far from home. We were too many children, ten of us to be precise, because
our parents were strict adherents of their Church’s injunctions on contraception.
I never believed that my parents actually wanted all of us.
And my moral learning probably started
there. From that deep-rooted feeling of unwantedness, though I was only the
third offspring and seven more followed at intervals of clockwork precision.
I attended all the church services
meticulously. I had no choice, of course. I prayed a lot at home. Again, no
choice. In case, I felt sleepy during the evening prayers, I had to kneel down
on a thin layer of sand and pray loud with arms stretched out like Jesus lamenting
on his cross. When I, any child of my generation for that matter, erred – as humans
do all the time – I was caned mercilessly by parents at home and teachers at
school.
You’d think my sense of morality
would be founded on a biblical rock with such upbringing. On the contrary, I
grew up terribly confused. What I was taught by parents, teachers, and most
importantly my church, had nothing to do with the actual life I had to live.
That actual life taught me all my
morality which wasn’t much until I grew old enough to unlearn all that and
shape my own personal morality mostly with the help of the books I read. It
took a long while for me to do that. I strayed much and endured more until
then.
Morality cannot be taught. When I
joined a school in Kerala as a teacher in 2015, as soon as I returned in a
terrible fit of depression to my home-village from Delhi, I was asked to teach
moral science in a particular class in addition to my regular teaching of
English in the senior secondary classes. The moral science class was a farce. I
tried to make it meaningful by leading the students to serious discussions on
contemporary moral issues of the sociopolitical reality around. The students
converted the discussions into a farce too merely because it was moral science
class. Who wants moral science?
Probably my students went through confusing
experiences as I did in my childhood though in different ways. Generation Alpha
had little in common with the Baby Boomers. But the sense of morality was a
casualty all the time, I think.
The funniest part of my experience as
a moral science teacher was the evaluation process. I chose to make a change in
it by preparing a question paper that would test the student’s ‘moral sense’
instead of ‘moral knowledge.’ So I prepared questions with imaginary situations
in which the student had to make a choice and write the reason for their
choice. Something like this:
You
are walking home from school when you find a wallet lying on the ground. There
is no one else around. You pick it up and find that it contains a large amount
of cash, an ID card, and a few receipts. The address on the ID is a few blocks
away from your home.
You
have three options:
1.
Take the money and
throw away the wallet. No one saw you pick it
up, and the person will probably cancel their cards anyway.
2.
Take the wallet to the
address and return it with everything intact.
You won’t gain anything, but the owner will be grateful.
3.
Leave the wallet where
it is. Maybe the owner will come back looking
for it.
What
would you do, and why?
I was not allowed to do that,
however. A traditional question paper came from a mysterious source instead with
all memory-based questions from the prescribed moral science textbook which I
hadn’t really taught in the classroom. My students scored high nevertheless
because they knew the system.
That’s it: the system.
Our morality is a both a product and a victim of the system in which we live, move
and have our being. Do you know why 6 million Jews could be killed brutally during
the WW2? Or, on a much lower scale, why a few hundred Muslims could be killed equally
brutally in Modi’s Gujarat of 2002? Avichal’s book, which I mentioned at the
beginning of this post has the answer.
A crowd has no morality. A crowd is a
Hobbesian leviathan. It has what Avichal calls groupthink, a term taken from
psychology to mean “a mode of thinking that people engage in when they are
deeply involved in a cohesive in-group…” In that mode of thinking, Avichal
points out, “there is a deterioration of mental efficiency, reality testing,
and moral judgement that results from in-group pressures.” As a result, “irrational
and dehumanizing actions directed against out-groups” follow all too easily.
Groups have leaders who are the authorities
that determine the morality of the group. “Authority,” asserts Avichal, “is a
potential pathogen of human organisations.” Authority is a plague of sorts.
Avichal goes on to say that “Criminal acts of the worst kind have been
perpetrated everywhere as a result of obedience to authority.”
Next time when your leader tells you
to do something in the name of notions like nationalism, think again. Think
independently.
There is the question of do you follow the leader? If you believe in a religion or such, do you follow the teachings of the priest who leads your part of the world? My family was nominally Catholic, but they definitely didn't follow all of the teachings (like contraception--there are just me and my brother). Things that did not make sense for us were rejected. And, we really weren't the best adherents to it anyway.
ReplyDeletePeople in charge like herds. Those that follow and go along. But the world is way more complex than that.
Today hardly anyone takes the Church seriously except for securing some personal material benefit like a job in a Church institution.
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ReplyDeleteGroup think, herd mentality, mobsterism... it has long been known that there are many who lose sight of their individual right to think when among those they wish to emulate or adulate... it takes courage to seperate oneself from the societal flow around us. Courage is a rare commodity. YAM xx
I'm glad to say that I've remained true to my convictions.
DeleteI think it's very subjective and personal. There are dos and don'ts, prescribed by leaders and leading institutions. But finally what works for a person tends to become morally correct, and what doesn't work tends to become morally incorrect. And these can change with time. What was morally acceptable at one time, could be unacceptable later, and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteKind of situational ethics? But the fundamentals remain all the time, I'm sure.
DeleteNearing my senior secondary graduation in 2017, it was as if I had life all figured out; since exams were more or less based on things that were taught in a classroom within four walls. But only when you get out of these boundaries and step into the real world you realise that it is not as simple as you had initially imagined. Here, things don't always go as planned; and not all people have the same morality as others. Which leads me to the point you've already mentioned that morality is not something you pick up from a book or from just an instance in your life. And I think it is fair to say that a person's morals are shaped by one's surroundings and a series of life experiences.
ReplyDeletePS: Please feel free to correct me as one of your former students for my grammatical mistakes, as it has been quite a while since I even wrote a comment like this.😅
Hi Ryan, I'm delighted to see you here. You were one of the most serene students I ever had. More mature than me, I'd say. Yet you faced, and still do I'm sure, moral dilemmas. The school doesn't prepare students to face those dilemmas, though as English teacher I did try to give ample insights into life. I must say your batch was unforgettably cooperative too.
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