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Randeep the melody

Many people in this pic have made their presence in this A2Z series


A phone call came from an unknown number the other day. “Is it okay to talk to you now, Sir?” The caller asked. The typical start of a conversation by an influencer. “What’s it about?” My usual response looking forward to something like: “I am so-and-so from such-and-such business firm…” And I would cut the call. But there was a surprise this time. “I am Randeep…” I recognised him instantly. His voice rang like a gentle music in my heart.

Randeep was a student from the last class 12 batch of Sawan. One of my favourites. He is unforgettable. Both Maggie and I taught him at Sawan where he was a student from class 4 to 12. Nine years in a residential school create deep bonds between people, even between staff and students.

Randeep was an ideal student. Good at everything yet very humble and spontaneous. He was a top sportsman and a prefect with eminent leadership. He had certain peculiar problems with academics. Answers came promptly from him if you questioned him in class. But when it came to writing, there were aggravating problems. I consulted the school’s counsellor once about this but it didn’t help because the counsellor was going to leave the school soon and the new management of the Queen wasn’t interested in anybody’s welfare.

Randeep was the kind of student who could be relied on for anything. Entrust him with a responsibility and you could forget about it because it would be carried out with meticulous dedication. 

When Randeep was in class eleven, the principal-in-charge initiated some new practices in the morning assembly. One of them was a weekly motivational speech by me. A short speech of 3-4 minutes. I normally presented some winner from history who made it against all odds and students appreciated me liberally. It should be emphasised here with bold printing that Sawan had its unique ways of appreciating people’s endeavours. Whatever good you did never went without many a good word from all quarters including the administration. This is something that I never saw in any of the other institutions where I worked. When RSSB took over completely, that culture gave way to criticism and negativity. My weekly speeches came to an end too.

One of the students drew my attention to Randeep’s fascination with my speeches. He was exempted from morning assembly that year as he was in charge of the newspaper distribution. Now, remember that Sawan was an exclusively residential school. So our routine was quite different from that of other schools. The students were woken up at 5.30 in the morning and made to do some exercises in the playgrounds. Then they had the ablutions. Classes began at 7.10 am. Breakfast after two periods. Then morning assembly in the auditorium. At that time, a couple of boys would be busy distributing the student edition of the Times of India in every classroom. Each student received a copy of the newspaper and they were expected to read it during the free times of the day. Randeep was to oversee this newspaper distribution. But every Thursday when my speech was there in the assembly, he would entrust the responsibility to a friend and join the assembly. “Just to listen to you,” he told me later.

He had the same passion in the English class too. He was the most attentive student, I would say, and he questioned me whenever he had an issue with what I said. My teaching was never confined to the lesson alone. It would go from the lesson to the contemporary world and its affairs. For example, if I was teaching Alphonse Daudet’s story ‘The Last Lesson’, my discussion would glide from the story to its themes of nationalism, role of mother tongue in nationalism, and so on. I courted controversy time and again. But my students were extremely open-minded though many of them never agreed with my views. Randeep too disagreed with me occasionally but his affection for me did not wane ever.

When he was completing class 12, we were all getting ready for the death of Sawan school. [See previous two posts for details.] Nevertheless all the rituals went on as usual. One of those rituals was the farewell programme for class 12. We, teachers of class 12 and the House Masters, had made all arrangements for the farewell programme which was to begin at 6 pm in the auditorium. At about 5.30 pm, R K Sharma (House Master) gave me a call to inform me that the class 12 students were all missing from the hostels. I gasped. RK and I started searching for the students. Where could such a large number of students vanish from a walled residential campus?

Finally we espied them in the laundry area. Randeep was one of the leaders who envisaged and executed this boycott of the farewell. They were against the RSSB management, they said. They refused to accept our (RK’s and mine) explanations. Our view was that the farewell had little to do with the management. Randeep and friends were adamant about their decision and we, their teachers, became helpless.

The surprise came the next day, however. One of the leaders of this rebellious move met me personally to tell me that the management was forcing Randeep and the other leaders of the rebellion to give a written statement that I was the teacher who forced them to boycott the farewell. I smiled because I knew that Randeep would never give such a statement. Not only Randeep, even the others who led the rebellion wouldn’t. Randeep would die for me if necessary.

It is difficult to find students like Randeep. I always considered myself blessed as a teacher because of students like Randeep. Nine years after our farewell, Randeep and I still enjoy great friendship. Yes, friendship. It is possible for a 64-year-old teacher to have a deep personal bond with a 27-year-old former student.

When I told Randeep the other day that I was planning to present him in this A2Z series with a pseudonym, his instant response was: “Use my name, why not?” He was so sure that I wouldn’t do him any injustice. Well, young man, the melody that you are deserves a better post than this. Wait until we meet again.

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  1. Teacher's influence on students - This post documents it very well. Such teachers are not only teachers, but they also possess an additional caliber - or humanity, shall we say - to mould their students to prepare them with resilience. Such a positive post to read in the morning.

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    1. You know why I miss Sawan? It's this influence that I could wield on students there. I could never do it in any other place. Residential schools are different places altogether.

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  2. Commendable! I hope Sawan school is not reading these posts! But a beautiful garland of memories for the readers.

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    1. Like Randeep, we could never afford to miss his speeches. It is far unlikely that any one of us including P and Q of the previous posts miss reading Matheikal. His words mesmerise and quietens a little student of class 4th to the Principal to the Mgmt! He is a magician of words. We fondly call him behind his back 'a walking encyclopedia.'

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    2. Sawan is no more, Ambica. They razed it to the ground. But the people who did it, they must be reading these posts, I'm quite sure.

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    3. Thank you, anonymous friend, for that compliment. I must tell you something. I never gave that sort of speeches any more after I left Sawan. No other place inspired me so much.

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  3. Randeep was a gem of a person with great sense of humour. I was lucky to have him as my best friend. It was like we were carrying Jai-Veeru legacy. In classes he was satirical, yet awesome. Much love to you, Paaji!

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  4. That's a nice story. Sad about how his schooling ended, but he sounds like he got something out of it anyway.

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  5. Fond memories of Randeep. You have used his pseudonym. His eyes welled with tears when we discussed about his problems in writing. His melancholy is a poem. He feels it deeply. He probably found it as a metaphor to the sufferings of humanity. He must be living a beautiful life now. As beautiful as your writing about him. Jay! to you Randeep! Hearty wishes. Waiting for your comment here. I will know you.:))

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    1. https://youtu.be/bbz2boNSeL0?si=fe4ulwrW4YMxBcpo


      This is wat randeep's life felt like

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    2. True, he was worried about that writing part. He felt so helpless with that problem. But his numerous other qualities and virtues made him a great person. I do hope that he will write something here.

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  6. Hari OM
    Being a teacher in such an establishment involves a degree of parenting, as much as anything else. I put it to you that you are as true an Uncle to Randeep as any of his blood relatives. And to any others who came under your care and guidance. I also state that you continue that speech-giving tradition right here!!! YAM xx

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    1. It was for the sake of those students that I pursued a PG course in psychology and counseling. It did help too.

      That suggestion on speech sounds a good idea.

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  7. Some teachers leave their footprints in your hearts and minds forever as you did on Randeep.

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    1. I have very deep friendship with quite a few students.

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  8. Wishing you a very happy birthday, dear Tomichan sir!

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    1. Thank you, my dear. I turned 64 happily today 😊

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  9. I agree to every word you mentioned. A student like Randeep are few but are there. Being a teacher I too love to share such bonds with my budding children. I would mention here, a teacher like you is the need of the hour to build a student crowd like Randeep.

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    1. Thank you and best wishes to you in the endeavor of helping children grow.

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  10. Such bonds last a lifetime and beyond. Great post.

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  11. Usually we talk about teachers who left a deep imprint on our lives. Reading this post about a teacher talking about a student who impacted them is quite refreshing. p.s. I need to catch up on your prev posts.

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    1. You are familiar with this space. So it won't be hard to catch up. And one who knows the Birla education system won't find it difficult to understand what's being conveyed here.

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  12. This is so amazing. Randeep was blessed to have you as his teacher. I can understand the enjoyment he must get from your speeches. I always learn something from your posts. Coincidentally, he and I are near in age, though, i was not lucky to have good teachers~

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    1. Teaching became a very unpopular profession in the last many years. Hardly anyone chooses it now. I too quit it this year though my school asked me to continue another year.

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