Dawn was the most reliable colleague I ever had. She
was the paragon of commitment. If she took up a responsibility, she would go
out of her way to perfect the output. We worked in the same department at Sawan
Public School, Delhi. One of our many duties in that exclusively residential
school was preparing students for such interschool competitions as debate,
declamation, etc. Whenever I needed help with such tasks, I fell back on Dawn.
Very few people are so entirely reliable.
We were happy colleagues for over a
decade doing a lot of things together like directing the English play for the
school’s annual day, anchoring sports events, organising inter-house competitions
related to our subject. There existed a rare camaraderie between us that made
the tasks all too easy. There were moments when I thought she overestimated me
because of which she suppressed her dissent with my way of carrying out certain
duties and activities. Almost a decade after we parted from each other, I once
did tell her that she was overestimating me. It was in another context
altogether, related to a project I took up post-retirement, thanks to Dawn. She
didn’t endorse my humility, however.
Humility is one of the many virtues I never
managed to acquire in spite of many arduous efforts I made. Dawn is not humble
either. The difference however is that she doesn’t possess the arrogance I do.
I usually succeed in suppressing my arrogance, while Dawn didn’t have to
grapple with that vice.
When Radha Soami Satsang Beas [RSSB]
took Sawan captive, the system underwent many changes. One such change was
related to the anchoring duties that Dawn and I used to carry out without any
hassle or glitch until then, especially on the Annual Sports Day. We used to do
that job impromptu because of the nature of the function which could not all be
pre-planned entirely. Many events change sequences, the names of the winners
will come up in the last moment, and so on. Even the valedictory function
didn’t have a rigid order, especially because the Head of the physical
education department was notorious for last minute arrangement of every
possible thing. Dawn and I had got used to it and we knew how to handle the
situation.
But RSSB insisted on readymade
written anchoring scripts. “Write down everything from the start to the
finish,” the new Manager ordered imperiously when I met her in her office on
summons. Worse, she gave me some yellowing sheets: the anchoring script she was
using in her school for years and years. “You can use this as guidelines.” I
felt nauseated. I could never work that way. I have never delivered a speech
from any stage with the help of a written script. Reading out a written script
has no life. You speak from the heart if you want words to have life. Never
mind even if you commit an error or two. People don’t mind errors as much as
they get bored with written scripts.
The first thing I did after coming
out from the new manager’s office was to meet Dawn. Shoving the yellowing pages
towards her, displaying my displeasure arrogantly, I told her what had
happened. Dawn knew me. She knew I wouldn’t work with a readymade script.
“Leave it to me,” she said. “I’ll do something.”
Dawn was ready with an entirely new
written script the next morning. She followed the example in those yellowing
pages from the manager’s ancient history and made her own script. She imbued
the spirit of the manager’s script and did a better job with it. The manager
was happy. That was the last annual sports day in Sawan. The manager wrote a
new script for the school which killed the institution soon enough. But her new
script made her the Director of the dying school.
Dawn left the school before the
manager became the director and a new manager named Pranita (who has made
umpteen appearances in this space and will make one more in this A2Z series)
took over with the gusto of the bulldozers she brought along to pull down the
buildings one by one.
Many people had left Sawan already
when Dawn was given her official farewell. Many had been thrown out by the
director and the manager. The remaining started leaving on their own. Dawn was
one of those. I had prepared an affectionate farewell speech in my mind for
her. But I couldn’t deliver it. I mumbled some absurd sounds and ended my
speech. I don’t recall what I said. Words cease to have relevance in certain
moments.
Our friendship has continued to this
day. I got a lot of help from her until I retired from teaching a few weeks
back. Anytime I wanted some help with CBSE’s latest changes or orders or
something like that, I only had to text Dawn and the answer would arrive in a
jiffy. If she didn’t have the answer, she would go out of her way and find it
for me. When I ask for a flower, she gives me a whole season of spring.
Even after I retired from teaching,
Dawn keeps sending me certain information that she thinks I should have. The
latest that came from her is about the new curriculum of CBSE which seeks to
decimate English gradually from India’s schools. Hindi is being thrust upon all
students. Moreover, in a devious process of Indianisation, attempts are being
made to smother local cultures and traditions. Dawn warns me of these changes
because she is concerned about what is happening in the country, especially in
its schools. Like Diogenes, Dawn knows that the foundation of every state is
the education of its youth.
People like Dawn are the reassurance that goodness hasn’t vanished from the world of humans.
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This story splendidly expresses the truth of the productive relationship and unshakeable morality underneath the trying times. She is a real superwoman. It's good to know that there is such dependable friendship and comment on how it is that to get along with life's highs and lows.
ReplyDeleteThere still is a lot of goodness in the world. There are good friends who help each other. The tragedy is the kind of politics that is being played in our country.
DeleteI think this is the Japanese art of Kintsugi to repair the breakages with golden or platinum mixture with some powdery substances. A friend has the potential to act as the golden patches to show the cracks in good light without disguising them. Pride is the quirk and Mr Matheikal has powdered it with the golden dust of arrogance as vice. His arrogance is never unfounded or whimsical It is his steadfastness when it comes to ensuring fairness and justice to prevail.
ReplyDeleteIt was my indignation that most people read as arrogance most of the times, I think. [Ther's arrogance even in that line of thinking :)] I leave it to my students particularly to tell me how arrogant I was because it is the young who read us best. Unfortunately, hardly any student responds here.
DeleteNo sir thats not right of you think that hardly any student of yours read your blogs though i wasnt your student rather a colleague, yet learnt then still learning. Thank you
DeleteGlad to hear this 👍
Delete"You speak from the heart if you want words to have life. Never mind even if you commit an error or two. People don’t mind errors as much as they get bored with written scripts."- Totally agree. Whole through my career, I enjoyed speaking impromptu.
ReplyDeleteYou speak impromptu. That's precisely why people would love to listen to you again and again.
DeleteI am shocked at the state of affairs in teaching, how can they take away a global language and make it a backward native country! What about globalisation and a trillion dollar economy, competing with the world?
ReplyDeleteAs I understand, Mr Modi thinks by making Hindi the lingua franca of the most populated country, he's paving the way to making it a world language. Modi has a vision which he will probably never realise is a delusion as grand as his overinflated ego.
DeleteYour post today took me back to the time when I was a teacher for a few years and how much it worried me to see schools turning into another kind of industry, a machine to manufacture obedient humans. It is indeed a sad state of affairs.
ReplyDeleteRSSB is actually running such a school in Beas, Punjab. There's a whole township there where every resident has to do whatever the godman dictates. The school there has all facilities imaginable, but meant to brainwash students indirectly.
DeleteIt is so good to read the way you compared the speech with and without the written script. Back in school, students started chatting among themselves, if someone start reading the prewritten script on the mic.
ReplyDeleteAll speech should come from the heart. Even political ones.
DeleteYour dawn brought dusk to the lives of lot of her students ;)
ReplyDeleteIsn't that too much of a hyperbole? Would you care to write a guest post in this space about your Sawan days? I'm curious.
DeleteWhy do they always go after education? (Don't answer that. I know the answer to that.)
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DeleteSir beautifully written with lots of emotions in it.
ReplyDeleteTomi Sir...was a Friend, philosopher and guide..learnt a lot from him. Was always looking forward to have a conversation with him . I remember he coming towards me in the mess during lunch...I was about to stand up..he caught hold of my hand and said " Never Stand up while having your food..even if God comes himself "
ReplyDeleteNice to see someone sharing good memories here.
DeleteCatching up with your work after a long time...brings back a lot of good memories..Beautifully done.
ReplyDeleteGlad you're here again.
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