Teacher’s Day: Forty Years in the Classroom

 

My First Colleagues in the Profession - Me back row 2nd from left

A few months back, I received a phone call from a student whom I taught at St Joseph’s Convent School in Shillong in the early 1990s. She’s now mother of a grownup boy who works in Kerala. When she came to Kochi to visit him, she remembered me. I was quite excited when she recalled certain happy moments from her schooldays of which I was a part too. A teacher’s true reward is such remembrance by former students.

I became a teacher purely by chance. Because I couldn’t find a better job, to put it bluntly. I had failed even as a hotel management trainee. A friend helped me find the teaching post at St Joe, as the girls called their school fondly. Having majored in math with physics and stats as subs, I took up the job of teaching math and science to high school students.

The fact that my first students were all girls helped. My immature and egotistic nature was reined in by the charming smiles all over. I grew to love teaching sooner than I would have expected.

I spent my free time reading since Shillong didn’t have any worthwhile entertainment whatsoever. That’s how I decided to do postgraduation in English literature. After eight years of my stint at St Joe, I became a lecturer of English in a college in the same place. That was a tragedy. Many things went wrong – due partly to my intrinsic flaws and partly to the society’s delight in accelerating an individual’s downfall – and I finally quit the place. And became a schoolteacher again, in Delhi, where I taught for a decade and a half. My last ten years of teaching were in my own home-state of Kerala.

Over 40 years, I made my share of mistakes. There were students I dealt with harshly. There were occasions when I lost patience with behaviour that irritated me. With the wisdom of hindsight, I sometimes wonder whether certain incidents could have been averted if I had been more patient or had taken the trouble to understand what lay behind a student’s behaviour.

Whenever I tried to understand a student personally, it was a tremendous learning experience for me. I learnt that every student carries an epic within them. Some of those stories are a lot painful too.

The most important lesson I learnt as a teacher was that teaching is not about imparting knowledge. Teaching is a relationship that evolves in the classroom. A classroom is a space where trust is built, personalities meet, and human beings influence one another. A student learns not only from what a teacher says, but also from the teacher’s patience, fairness, enthusiasm and concern. In turn, teachers are shaped by their students: their questions, struggles, aspirations and even mischief.

Knowledge is the visible part of education. The invisible bond that develops between teacher and student is what gives learning its meaning. The lessons taught in a classroom may fade with time, but the memory of a caring teacher, a word of encouragement or a moment of understanding can remain a lifetime. That is why teaching is more than a profession. Teaching is a mission.

When I left teaching at the age of 65, I knew that it was becoming difficult for me to hold on to this view of mine about the missionary nature of teaching. The generation had changed drastically. I would have continued to teach otherwise. That’s different story, however.

I wish HAPPY TEACHER’S DAY to all teachers in India, especially my colleagues in the last school with whom I’m still in touch.

The Last School

PS. India observes Sept 5 as Teacher’s Day in honour of its first President, Dr S Radhakrishnan, who was a teacher and philosopher. He said, “The true teachers are those who help us think for ourselves.”

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  1. A beautiful and deeply touching reflection on teaching and the lasting bond between a teacher and student. Happy Teacher’s Day, Greetings.

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    1. Thank you, dear Rupam. Yes, teaching, for me, is a relationship. And that makes a lot of difference. The number of phone calls and messages that came this morning from my former students keep me feeling proud of the job I performed for 4 decades.

      By the way, many people are complaining that they can't post comments on blogger. And you've been able to! Hope the problem is solved.

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  2. I have a friend who is a teacher, and his students are now collecting Social Security while he keeps going strong.

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    1. Teachers are neglected in India too. And there's no SS or anything of the sort except for the privileged few in government schools. Knowing India, teachers save what they can during service and survive old age.

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  3. Always proud to be your student, sir.
    Happy teacher's day.

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  4. Hari OM
    Enjoy 'your' day, Tomichan! I think having a teacher's day is as important as recognising parents, for in our childhood, we spend nearly as much time with them as with our families. I know I remember three teachers in particular and all because they were encouraging, understanding, and patient.

    Re the comments: for 24 hours, nobody could publish comments on Blogger. Thankfully it has returned to functionality - now if they could only sort out the delayed and missing posts delivery to reading lists! YAM xx

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    1. As I drove Maggie to school this morning as usual, i said the same thing: A child spends more time with teachers than parents, so we deserve Teacher's Day and we need to take care of each child.

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  5. Nikitha Reetha PittoSeptember 5, 2026 at 4:07 PM

    Happy Teacher’s Day, Sir ❤️

    I am truly glad that I was also a part of your teaching journey. As one of your students, I can proudly tell you and the world that you are an excellent English teacher.
    Sometimes, I think that if I had been your student a little earlier, your teaching would have shaped my language and vocabulary in such a beautiful way that maybe I would have even written a book by now! 😄
    You are one of those teachers whom I, along with many of your students, still remember fondly. You were a wonderful teacher then, and you still are. Thank you for being such an inspiring teacher and for leaving such a lasting impact on your students including me.

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  6. Teachers don't get enough credit at all. It's always nice when we have a great teacher that we remember fondly.

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    1. Teachers who touch the heart of students remain in memory for long.

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  7. Happy Teacher's Day. The lessons one learns as a teacher is not what one expects when one goes into the profession.

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