Tomichan Matheikal's blog

Sex is arguably the most pernicious sin in Christianity given that most people don’t commit murder.  The first thing Adam and Eve did after eating the forbidden fruit was to hide themselves from God in shame.  They felt ashamed of their nakedness.  They felt ashamed of their sexuality.  The Bible says that as soon as they ate the forbidden fruit Adam and Eve “knew things they had never known before.  They realised they were naked.  So they sewed together fig leaves and made clothes for themselves.” (Genesis 3:7) What were the things that “they had never known”?  What led them to the realisation of their nakedness?  The Bible doesn’t explain that.  John Milton put it in brilliant poetry in his epic Paradise Lost .  Adam and Eve were intoxicated as if they had drunk new wine, sang Milton.  They swam in mirth and felt divinity taking wings within them.  Carnal desire enflamed both of them.  Milton says that they bur...

“Those who can, do; those who can’t, teach.” One of Bernard Shaw’s characters said that with the typical Shavian piquancy. I have been a teacher by profession all my life and I am on the verge of retirement. When a fellow blogger suggests a topic like ‘ Can teachers today be called “the untalented leftovers”? ’ and it receives a record number of votes from bloggers, I am more amused than chagrined. Well, to start with myself as an example, I think the blogger who suggested the topic has a point because I was an “untalented leftover”. I was not particularly good at anything. I failed to secure even a bank clerk’s job. A conspiracy of chromosomes contrived to make me a priest and I failed absolutely by ending up as an atheist. The mother of a student of mine met me the other day and complained that her daughter opted for English literature at college because of me. I swelled with pride, only to have that bubble of pride punctured by her next statement: “Why did she have to s...

They hailed him a great nationalist when he stopped writing politics and turned to blogging about food and fad. He had started donning a waistcoat of a particular cut. Please, don’t insult me calling me a cultural leader: His heart pleaded, silently. What culture am I to lead? Grabbing, raping and lynching? Culture of hate that masquerades as patriotism? When the TV channels were busy finding accolades for the political leaders, the cultural leader was forming WhatsApp groups for neo nationalists. The arrests of honest people didn’t disturb the cultural leader’s devotion to WhatsApp. Nor did the disappearance of hearts from writers. Nor did the death of poetry on the wayside. Nor did the rape of justice on the highway. He knew the truth, however, in the core of his heart. That he was nothing more than a coward. This article will throw light on the poem. 

  Image from here Who doesn’t want to be happy? I wasted almost an entire lifetime chasing happiness until life taught me that happiness is not something to be chased but accepted. It’s given freely. All around us. You just got to have a mind to choose it. I feel like being a little textbookish today. So here it is: Psychological researches consistently suggest that good relationships provide the strongest basis for satisfaction in life. Even introverts require a few close relationships if they are to be happy. An effective way of creating happiness is making positive differences in the lives of others . It is not hard to find ways to be helpful to others and reach out to the less fortunate. When you do that, your sense of self-worth increases and you add a greater meaning to your life. Moreover, your relationship with those people whose lives you touch will deepen. Another advantage is that this will help put your own problems in perspective and direct your e...

Trees vanished from the forests that adjoined Sawan, thanks to the developmental activities of RSSB. Gurinder Singh Dhillon, the godman of RSSB, visited Sawan only once. It was a couple of months after his people had taken over the school’s management. All the teachers and staff of the school were ordered to sit in the auditorium while the godman came with a retinue of policemen in many escort vehicles. The non-teaching staff like the gardeners and sweepers were all removed from the scene. Later on, Mr Tyagi told us that the godman was interested only in seeing how much area the campus covered. He refused to meet the students. When one of the little boys, unable to endure the suspense, succeeded in circumventing the teachers and prefects and moved out of the auditorium, he was chased back by a guarding policeman. I wondered why the godman was so afraid even of a little boy. As trees vanished from the Asola-Bhatti forests, soon people started vanishing from Sawan too. Many me...